build: upgrade dependencies and build with go 1.21

vendor/dario.cat/mergo/.gitignore

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+#### joe made this: http://goel.io/joe
+
+#### go ####
+# Binaries for programs and plugins
+*.exe
+*.dll
+*.so
+*.dylib
+
+# Test binary, build with `go test -c`
+*.test
+
+# Output of the go coverage tool, specifically when used with LiteIDE
+*.out
+
+# Project-local glide cache, RE: https://github.com/Masterminds/glide/issues/736
+.glide/
+
+#### vim ####
+# Swap
+[._]*.s[a-v][a-z]
+[._]*.sw[a-p]
+[._]s[a-v][a-z]
+[._]sw[a-p]
+
+# Session
+Session.vim
+
+# Temporary
+.netrwhist
+*~
+# Auto-generated tag files
+tags